The Story of Yingying shows how love can be destroyed if other things outside the
relationship, such as society, are allowed to affect the couple’s future
together. Two people, Zhang and Yingying (Miss Cui), fall in love with each
other and for a short amount of time they enjoy being in love. But soon outside
forces cause the love affair to fall apart due to the choices that are
made.
In the beginning of the story, we find out that Zhang is
twenty-three years old and has never had relations with a woman. He is quoted
saying, "I am the true lover - I just never happened to meet the right
girl. How do I know that? It's because things of outstanding beauty never fail
to make a permanent impression on me," (pg. 1054). Later on when he is
introduced to Yingying for the first time, she was not wearing anything
spectacular just a normal everyday dress. She wore no makeup, except for a bit
of rouge, and her hair was in disarray. Yet her beauty was extraordinary enough
to startle Zhang. He chooses to try and tries to win her over by confessing his
feelings for her. She tries to follow what is socially acceptable of a young
unmarried woman at that time but eventually gives in to her feelings for Zhang.
Later on, the role society plays is seen as the key to
understanding what doomed their relationship. Zhang has to follow the social
obligation to live where he goes to school. He does manage to return to visit
her, but must once again leave to take his exams. On the eve of his departure Yingying
tells him, “To seduce someone and then abandon her is perfectly natural, and it
would be presumptuous of me to resent it. It would be an act of charity on your
part if, having first seduced me, you were to go through with it and fulfill
your oath of lifelong devotion,” (pg. 1057). Yet, she plays the zither for him
after saying this because he has always wanted her to play it for him. Even
when she realizes what is going on, she chooses to show her devotion to him. We
see that Zhang's priorities are clearly set on his schooling rather than on his
relationship with Yingying when he chooses to go back to take the exams. He chooses
to follow what society expects of him rather than choosing to be with Yingying.
Yingying was clearly willing to make sacrifices for Zhang, but Zhang was not willing
to sacrifice for her in return.
Yingying further shows her understanding that their future
together was doomed. In a letter to Zhang she writes, "When I offered
myself in your bed, you treated me with the greatest kindness, and I supposed,
in my innocence, that I could always depend on you. How could I have foreseen
that our encounter could not possibly lead to something definite, that having
disgraced myself by coming to you, there was no further chance of serving you
openly as a wife?" (pg. 1058).
All of Zhang’s friends have heard what has happened and wonder why
Zhang has chosen to pursue education over love. Zhang is quoted saying,
"It is a general rule that those women endowed by heaven with great beauty
either destroy themselves or destroy someone else," (pg. 1061). Zhang
and Yingying end up marrying other people. It is clear in the end that they
still do have feelings for one another, but Zhang made his choice and must now
deal with the fact that he lost his true love.
Word count (minus the page numbers): 593
Text: The Norton Anthology of World Literature, Third
Edition, Volume B